Personal slavery certainly has very bad name amongst us pro-dommes and I know of very few colleagues who even entertain the concept.
This is very understandable as people applying for the position of a personal slave often have at least one of the following goals in mind:
1) get free sessions (possibly in return for some sloppy housework)
2) ego-booster (by getting to know a renowned pro-domme)
3) ambition to become a pro-domme’s boyfriend, lover, husband, sex slave
4) other agenda (e.g. desire to earn money off the pro-domme by starting some sort of business or project with her)
To invest time and efforts into a wannabe personal slave is simply not worth the trouble for the majority of pro-dommes.
Unlike many of my colleagues, I have been more optimistic about the potential of individual hand-picked personal slaves probably from the very beginning of my femdom career. However, it was not untill 2012 that I found my “perfect slave” – generous, fun, obedient, intelligent and keen to please in many, many ways. If it sounds too good to be true, it was. The impressive package came with initially not so openly advertised romantic agenda, that the slave himself later called “Master plan”. The “Master plan” was really just a strong ambition to get married to an elite domme. That ambition did not materialize and the great chemistry we had for a couple of years eventually dissolved into frustration on both sides followed by my decision to call it the day.
I do not really mind if my personal slaves develop feelings for me (and they all do sooner rather than later) as long as there are no false expectations whatsover. I like my life drama and guilt free. My current D/s arrangements are somewhat less intense than the previous one but in the long term run feel a lot more satisfying. I know the slaves serve me because they think I´m worth their servitude both as a domme and a person, not because they hope to “own” me one day through marriage, exclusive romantic relationship or otherwise. It gives me great peace of mind. That being said, they both did exhibit some degree of jealousy and / or posessiveness on a couple of occasions but those were short-lived isolated incidents that are not worth writing about.
Occasionally the clients I session with ask me what it takes to become my personal slave. Often, they are those who happen to have massive foot fetish. When I start explaining all the various numerous ways in which my slaves serve me, the client seems to be very surprised indeed. I believe it is mostly the femdom videos that are to be blamed for those mens’ misconception.
If you also wonder in what ways exactly my slaves have served me, get inspired below.
Financially – gifts, sponsored trips, holidays, photo-shoots, fine meals, spa treatments, credit card etc
Butler duties, house work
Contributions to this website in the form of Journal entries
Personal service – foot massage, pedicure, manicure etc
For all sessions tributes are naturally collected even though the slaves are not considered clients.
If you are very sure you have what it takes, you can apply for the position of my prospective personal slave by email. Be ready to chat on Skype first and obviously tribute for my time is required.