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From Mistress´ Diary part 4

Around the time I broke up with slave B., two new wonderful personal slaves found their way into my life. They are different age, nationality, ethnic background and have different family status as well as the overall lifestyle but one thing they do have in common – both grew extremely devoted to me over the time. Naturally, there have been a few disappointments along the way as one would expect in any relationship or personal arrangement. What really counts, though, is that things have progressed very well with both of them lately.

My English slave K. decided to prove his loyalty by offering to get a brand of my ownership anywhere on his body as per my preference. This is something I haven´t explored with any of my slaves yet and I instantly felt intrigued.  The slave is now looking into various designs and he should get one of them tattooed later this spring. The kinkiest bit actually is not the tattoo itself but rather the fact, that K. is married and this obviously WILL have consequences for his marriage.

The other exciting news is that K. has just ordered a Platinum credit card for me. It will be handed to me personally in a few weeks time, probably as part of our next session. This does not only make me feel so spoilt, it naturally gives me some extra power over my slave. Something I genuinely thrive on.

My Middle-Eastern slave N. is not married but is limited by his very demanding job. His major ambition is to eventually relocate to Europe so that he can be closer to me and serve me better. By the time this happens, we should be able to meet in between his work projects, possibly as often as every two months. N.´s way of servitude is extremely self-less. He stood out of the crowd already the first time we met when he impressed me with the largest tip I had ever received from anyone in a session. The other mind-blowing thing about N. is that he will happily serve and treat the people I love just to please me. This is very rare because there´s nothing sexual or kinky about it. It´s pure servitude at its best.

I am very curious about what´s coming next in my D/s arrangements and whether there will or will not be any new personal slaves accepted this year. As all of you know, the bar had been set high and hardly anyone is given the chance to become my owned slave.

Some of the recent gifts modelled

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All by K. and N. xx

Instadommes, pathetic wannabe findommes and other timewasting ladies

Frankly, it was to be expected that a classy findom website like mine would get a lot of unwanted attention from other women keen to harvest “free” money. A few times a week I get an email such as those below from some young girl who begs or commands me to share my know-how and success recipe with her. Naturally, these ladies offer nothing in return whatsoever. They only demand, expect or cry for help. A year ago I had no idea women could be this pathetic. Their naivety, arrogance and twisted perception is simply mind-boggling and I am yet to get my head around it.

When I was entering the world of femdom in 2007, I first picked literature and googled the internet extensively. Next I started meeting all kinds of kinksters for amateur sessions while charging them just a small fee (often as low as 50 GBP for whole hour of my company) to compensate for my lack of experience. Some of them were happy to mentor me and I appreciated that. Later,  I went to fetish clubs whenever possible. I advertised for personal slaves. I started building my fetish wardrobe and scheduled numerous photoshoots. I just liked the whole lifestyle. It was great fun just as it was hard work, often with degree of  emotional labour involved. When I eventually decided to specialize in distance arrangements in 2013, I already had enough knowledge of Ds dynamics as well as plenty of hands on experience to know what I was doing.

This is not to say that these inexperienced, clueless women have zero chance to succeed. There are many guys who have so little self respect that they couldn´t care less about who they serve. And no, I´m not saying every bloke who doesn´t pick ME has issues. There are hundreds of gorgeous, established, genuine and smart dommes who deserve all the tributes they get and more. It would be so beneficial for the whole femdom scene if more guys went for those real Mistresses as opposed to the instadommes.

***Ladies, there´s nothing wrong with being a beginner, just make sure your attitude doesn´t suck!***

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