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Special anniversary

In June I will celebrate a very special anniversary – 10 years on the femdom scene! Back in 2007 I never imagined I could possibly last this long – the unpredictibility of the income, the timewasting morons, the insanity of some of the requests, the widespread misconceptions, the entitlement of the average “submissive” male as well as the frequent lack of respect or, occasionally, even plain rudeness. Not to mention the very low prestige of the profession itself.

Yet, ten years later, I am still here. While the first half of my Mistress career had been driven more by the economical factors, curiosity and perhaps some “f*ck you society” attitude, in the recent years it was mostly the great dynamics of my complex femdom arrangements and relationships and the posh lifestyle provided by my selected few personal slaves as well as special clients that made me stay.

Those 10 years have been fantastic in overall, with some downs and many ups. I got to travel extensively in Europe, visited US – both the West and the East coast and was repeatedly served up to very high standards in the Middle East. I have appeared in videos for a dozen of respected femdom websites such as The English Mansion, Woman Worship, OWK and many more.  I self-published my memoir The Diary of a Kinky Girl that has been getting very positive reviews.

Although I have considered retirement at some stages of my career, final decision has not been made yet and I am likely to stay for a few more years.

If anyone wants to treat me on this special occasion, I would love one of the gift vouchers listed here.



Many thanks for all the Christmas and New Year gifts including the gift cards and cash credit. I love it all – the lingerie, jacket, shirt and everything else!



Spoiled and pampered





New interview with me

The amazing Lady Sas of Germany has just published an interview with me on her blog! You can check it out here.


Picture by charliepycraft.co.uk

K.’s journal part 2

This is a belated blog post due to some health issues I have experienced, however despite being delayed I hope you will enjoy me sharing my experiences as Mistress Arella’s Personal Slave.

It has been 9 months since I first met Mistress Arella and I can say it has probably been the most memorable 9 months of my life, you will know from my previous blog post that I am an experienced slave, however this has only been in limited sessions with various Pro Dommes, therefore I had never experienced the true feeling of being owned or feeling like I am a 24/7 Slave. Serving Mistress Arella has completely changed my life, I now feel owned and I am oncall to her 24/7 365 days a year if she needs me.

A good place to start with explaining how I serve Mistress Arella is probably with how I serve her when she visits London. You may think this starts when she arrives at the airport, however you would be wrong. Long before Mistress has arrived we need to plan a number of things for her visit i.e. accommodation, for Mistress Arella’s visit in March I offered to pay for the accommodation & flights in full, therefore I deposited the £600.00 (yes it is that cheap) into Mistress Arella’s bank account so that she could book suitable accommodation & the flights.

The next priority is to plan where Mistress Arella will be dining. For her visit in March I had the privilege of dining with her on 4 occasions. The restaurants all need to be booked prior to Mistress arriving in London, therefore it is my job to ensure all the restaurants are booked for the time requested by Mistress Arella. All the restaurants are fine dining venues of course.

As Mistress Arella had a couple of photoshoots arranged for her visit, I also arranged for a hair salon at a 5 Star hotel to cut & style her hair. I, of course, paid for this as her slave.

Mistress Arella also likes me to purchase some basic food items that she can enjoy in her apartment during her time in London. I normally do this an hour before Mistress Arella arrives to ensure all the food is as fresh as possible.

The photoshoots were mainly arranged so that she could model the leather items I had purchased for her in February, however Mistress Arella also wanted to model some lingerie, therefore I wanted to ensure she had everything she needed for the photoshoot. Mistress Arella chose some lovely items which I purchased for her.

You will see from the above that there are a number of duties I carry out as Mistress Arella’s Personal Slave which I would liken to being a PA to a CEO of a company, that is the best way I can describe it.

I bet most of you who are reading this would think that it was all about me being whipped & caned and enjoying being dominated and humiliated by Mistress Arella. Well this is a real Personal Slave Position where a lot of the tasks you may see as menial. This is a part of my Personal Slave duties I really enjoy as it is making Mistress Arella’s life easier and that is what I want to do as Mistress Arella’s Personal Slave.

So that is all the preparation done, it is now time for Mistress Arella to arrive. My day starts with excitement & anticipation as I know today is the day I get to serve Mistress Arella in person. I normally go to work until midday and then take the afternoon off so that I can do Mistress Arella’s shopping and be ready in good time to chauffeur Mistress Arella from the airport to the apartment. This visit is slightly different though as we have arranged for Mistress Arella to have her hair trimmed immediately on her arrival. I chauffeur Mistress Arella to a 5 star hotel which has a hair salon onsite. I wait patiently in the reception area until Mistress summons me in to pay the stylist. Mistress Arella is not happy, the stylist (a male & owner of the salon) has been rude & was not gentle whilst styling her hair. I can see Mistress is livid, this is her natural dominance shining through.

We decide to have a couple of cocktails in the Hotel Bar whilst we wait for the hotel restaurant to open. It is time to have a nice chat & relax a little bit after a day of travelling. When the restaurant opens we are seated next to a lovely water feature in an enclosed area which is nice as Mistress does not like to be in a noisy environment. We have a lovely meal and enjoyable chat. After the meal it is time to chauffeur Mistress Arella to her apartment. This is a 2 bed apartment in Chiswick and is up to Mistress Arella’s requirements. I help Mistress Arella in with her luggage and ensure she has everything she needs before I go home for the night.

As I get home I see Mistress Arella has sent me an email. She is not happy as she has been left a note saying that a gas man will call in the morning to carry out some checks. During Mistress Arella’s visit in February she was disturbed by the noisy trains which made it difficult for her to sleep. We had requested an apartment in a quieter area this time so that Mistress Arella could have a peaceful nights sleep.The fact that a gas man could wake her up did not please her. It was my job to phone the company to say that Mistress Arella did not want the gas man to call. They were rather difficult with this request and initially refused to cancel, however I advised them that if they did not cancel we would be looking for some type of compensation for the inconvenience. They immediately cancelled, to my relief. I would not want to disappoint Mistress Arella.

The next day I arrive to chauffeur Mistress Arella to her photoshoot, but prior to that we are due to have lunch at another Michelin star restaurant, again this is a lovely meal and I feel privileged that I am allowed to accompany Mistress Arella to lunch. She always has so many interesting stories and is not afraid to talk about being a Pro Domme in public. After lunch we make our way to the photoshoot. Whilst Mistress Arella gets changed into her leather outfit I pay the photo studio for the hire, I also speak to her photographer who is experienced in his profession so much so that he has had numerous photos in the media, some very well known. As a budding photographer myself it is interesting to pick up some tips from him.

During the shoot I am an observer, helping move props if required and ensuring Mistress Arella has everything she needs. I am also lucky enough to be used in some of the scenarios which is a lovely experience.

After a long tiring day for both of us, I chauffeur Mistress Arella back to her apartment and I make my way home.

It is Friday, today we have a lot planned, firstly a meal at an Italian restaurant followed by my first dungeon session with Mistress Arella & finally I get the opportunity to photograph Mistress Arella myself.

I will skip straight to the session. The dungeon was adequate for our needs, but even before we entered the dungeon I had to help Mistress Arella put her stockings on. I was struggling and could not get the clips to hold. Mistress Arella immediately slapped me in the face a number of times. I continued to struggle for what seemed like a lifetime, Mistress Arella slapped my face again a number of times and then was so angry she got out her cane & caned me on my bare bottom. The session had not even started and I was being punished.

During the session we tried a number of things, including me being strapped to a bondage wheel. Whilst strapped & helpless Mistress Arella gained great pleasure by putting on some boxing gloves and punching my balls a number of times until I was screaming in agony. Very enjoyable though. Mistress Arella also put me in a cage from which I worshipped her feet through the bars. Mistress Arella had a brand new whip which even she said may be too much for me, however she went on to whip me which resulted in a number of bruises on my bottom and thighs. Again very enjoyable. For the first time since August 2014, Mistress Arella allowed me some relief in a session, which was very kind of her.

After the session it was time for me to Photograph Mistress Arella in various outfits, mainly the sexy lingerie I had purchased. I was extremely privileged to be allowed to do this. We spent 3 hours taking a number of photos, a lovely experience for me. At the end of the photoshoot we were both so tired. It had been a long day and I think we both just wanted to get home and sleep. I chauffeured Mistress Arella back home.

Before I left for my home Mistress Arella handed me a bag full of her dirty lingerie, this included 3 panties, a bra, stockings & a negligee. Mistress Arella requested that I hand wash all these items & return them to her spotlessly clean the next morning.

As I arrived home I hurried into my house & prepared to hand wash these items. This was again such a privilege to be allowed to handle something as intimate as Mistress Arella’s panties. She knows I have a pantie fetish so she must have known what a tease this is for me. I delicately hand washed all the items ensuring that the panties were spotlessly clean, I gently massaged the water into the panties ensuring no area was missed. I did the same for the other items. I needed to dry the items quickly so I hung them in my bedroom on the dryer and decided to speed up the process by placing a heating fan near the dryer. To my relief all the items were dry by the morning. The lingerie I washed was extremely sexy, expensive & had been worn by in my opinion the sexiest woman on this planet. For a pantie fetishist such as myself this was my dream task. I’m glad to say Mistress Arella was pleased with the results so I hope she will allow me to hand wash her lingerie again on her next visit.

For me a lovely day and the highlight of her visit.

Saturday and it is the day Mistress Arella flies home. I arrive at the apartment early so that we can have a domestic session, these are every bit as good as a dungeon session, todays session involved me giving Mistress Arella a nail manicure, me being wrapped in cling film so I am completely helpless. Mistress Arella uses some fairly harsh nipple clamps on me, my cock & balls are tied with string leaving them very securely held in place. I am then laid on my back on the bed, still wrapped in cling film, my cock & balls are exposed for Mistress to torture, she uses a number of items including clamps, candle wax & even an electrical device to shock my cock. Mistress Arella then sits on my face, I am really turned on by this point and hope Mistress Arella will allow me to relieve myself. She doesn’t, instead the session ends, Mistress tells me to stay on the bed whilst she gets changed. She comes back in with the sexiest lingerie I have ever seen, showing off every sexy part of her beautiful body. If only I could relieve myself I am so turned on. Well maybe next time.

After the session we both get ready to visit a dungeon just to view so that Mistress Arella can use the dungeon on her next visit. The dungeon is full to the brim with all manner of torture devices. It was nice to go there and be introduced to the other Mistress as Mistress Arella’s Personal Slave. It made me feel proud to be in this position and actually made me feel that I belong in this position, it just felt so natural.

Time for another lunch before Mistress Arella returns home. This was not without incident. On arrival at the restaurant we were seated next to a noisy group of people. Mistress Arella & I were trying to have a pleasant conversation whilst eating our starter. The noise from the next table meant we could not hear ourselves speak, to Mistress Arella’s obvious displeasure. Mistress Arella in a high voice made it clear she was not happy and asked me to arrange to be seated at another table. I spoke to the manager and he hastily prepared another table for us to move to. We were then able to continue with our meal.

It is always sad for me when I have to say goodbye to Mistress Arella at the airport. I know in this visit I have really been spoiled, I spent every day with Mistress Arella and enjoyed some wonderful experiences. Hopefully there will be many more to come.

There we have it my life as Mistress Arella’s Personal Slave, I would not change it for the world, it is where I belong and where I feel most naturally happy. If you ever get the opportunity to be Mistress Arella’s Personal Slave or even just session with her, grab it with both hands as it is a rare unique opportunity to turn your dreams & fantasies into reality.

My next blog will explain how Mistress Arella saved my life…yes really.

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