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Dining wishlist

I have been dining with my subs as well as clients since the very beginning of my kinky career. There have been some amazing, never to be forgotten events, but it also sometimes happens that my dining companion is simply socially awkward. You know all those shy and quiet types  but also those who just love to listen to their own voice, rudely not giving their partner enough (if any) space in the conversation? It’s hard to say which group is more annoying. Those who have nothing to say or those who never shut up? Such occasions always leave me highly frustrated and sometimes even angry. Just a few days ago, I had to turn down an offer to be taken to a dinner by a client I once met for drinks (terribly boring experience) as well as a session (that he managed to ruin within less than 15 min).

As much as I love fine dining and talking to people, I urge you to do some healthy self-analysis before you approach me. Do your dates regularly excuse themselves right after the main course, never staying for dessert, cup of tea or another glass of wine? Do you ever have silent moments while dining with Ladies? Are you a person who normally answers questions with dull “yes” or “no”, not bothering to elaborate or develop proper conversation? Do you expect your companion to do most of the talking? Do you ever check whether your dining partner is having a good time or are you just too self-absorbed? Have you ever been accused of being a narcissist? Has anyone ever hinted that you apparently really like to listen to yourself?

If you are not sure whether you are a decent dinner companion but wish to treat me a to a nice meal anyway, do consider getting me the gift voucher below:

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I consider long assignments in Berlin provided I get enough notice (ideally two weeks or more).

Some of the ideas how to fill the day (or two):

– A femdom session in a comfortable apartment in the centre of the city (my favourite activities: caning, worship, degradation, objectification, small cock humiliation and many more).

– A visit of KaDeWe (I bet you like to buy women high heeled shoes as well as luxurious lingerie!)

– A dinner in a restaurant of my choice. I like Swissotel and Concorde in case you wonder!

– Or maybe even a trip to the nearest cash point because that would make you so hard to get drained in public?

Fine dining in Germany

Last week my most loyal slave and I went to Germany to play, shop, dine and relax. We had a few memorable meals while there and I think these pictures look rather well on my blog!




All pictures by Mistress Arella – restaurant Juliette, Potsdam.

My trip to The Netherlands

Enjoy a couple of pictures from my recent trip to The Netherlands!


Problems with fakers

I have found quite a few people using texts stolen from my website recently so I can only guess how many fakers actually parasite on me this way. If you come across such stolen content whether texts, photos or videos, kindly drop me a line so that I can take action.


This retro picture is one of my first professional ones (taken in 2007). 

Talking about fakers and scammers, I would also like to urge all financial slaves NOT to send money or gifts to a fin domme who doesn´t have any history or reputation on the internet. You have no control over where your money goes if you tribute the first pretty face you stumble on.

Here´s an excerpt from a comment left in my Real Deal Slave FetLife group by one such naive man:

…In profiles on Collarme and Facebook there are many men pretending to be females. It has become a way of making money in the region where I live. I have lost a lot of money this way, paying people who promised contact but simply did not respond after the tribute has been recieved.

(Text has been slightly rephrased.)


Do not tribute me through any website / online profile that clearly doesn´t belong to me. There are scammers using my pictures to advertise fetish chat services that I do not provide. They even try to collect large tributes in my name. Do not fall into such trap.

If you would like to tribute me, click here.


One of the biggest offenders is Lauren Fulbrook, address: Thornfield, AxesLane, Redhill, RH1 5QL, UK, email: Mrsfulbrook@gmail.com FB: https://www.facebook.com/tiafulbrook, https://www.facebook.com/laurentia.fulbrook who dully copied ALL my website texts including highly personalized lines and is therefore matter-of-factly pretending to be myself. She uses some stolen pictures too.


I now take printscreens of such fraudulent websites so that I have a proof on hand anytime.

My webmaster works very hard to have such fake sites closed down but it takes a lof of time and energy. Nevertheless we will not stop chasing these appalling scammers.


A couple of pictures from rainy Zurich